The site may not work properly if you don't, If you do not update your browser, we suggest you visit, Press J to jump to the feed. Turning 30 is terrifying. My business was taking money from the family budget. When you discover your raison d'etre, your reason for existing on this planet (only the individual can define their own meaning in life), you can change your perspective and learn to adapt in order to achieve your desires and goals. Read daily. I meditated. Pick a higherpower of your choosing that allows you to have faith that you can be happy); Leaving the fucking house (parks, game night, museums, farm team baseball etc..); Therapy; 12 step program; The Savvy Psychologist podcast and her book on social anxiety "How to Be Yourself"; Exploring new hobbies/interests; Being vulnerable enough to tell my closest friends (all mine are married now too) the truth about how I was feeling. Having a small social group ... what? Don't stew in it). Many say turning 25 is a pivotal moment in your twenty-something life. If you do, let me flip it around for you & try to see it from their perspective. I'll be honest, this can suck. I successfully quit smoking back in March. My business was struggling, I was working 70 hours a week, skipping payrolls for myself so my employees could get paid, tired, embarrassed, miserable, on a treadmill that seemed to go nowhere, in debt, scared of failure, father of one child, expecting another. It happens. Good luck. At 33, I'm still a virgin and bad at social skills. I learned about the 80/20 rule and started applying that. It seems to me that you have a negative view on life. I am trying to be better with my budget. But the upside is my wife likes hiking as well and after watching my situation she's decided to eat healthier and is down a few pounds herself . I will most definitely keep checking out his stuff, thank you so much for suggesting I look into him: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qHnIJeE3LAI. Xanax problems are gone. Am I striving for more? Too many people are afraid to even admit it or look for a solution. Best advice: keep the wisdom of the past but let go of your thirty years so that you can live in the future of who you were meant to be. The conversation got me thinking about how much I'm loving my 30s. My Programming skills - which is necessary for point 2. I started surfing when I was 41. I DEFINITELY have had that voice in my head saying "You are in your late 30s and what have you done! Choose something, make a plan, get it done, and show yourself what you're really capable of. Maybe you want to learn how to rebuild a car engine. Thank you for taking the time to write such a thoughtful reply. It's only a failure if you stop trying. Although I’ll never say no to an adventure, […] Whenever you catch yourself saying "I can't " stop, and ask "How can I?" Unfortunately still going to be another 4 years before we're out of debt, which feels like wasted time considering I could have started two years ago, but at least I am time no longer feeling stressed out and out of control. I went back to undergrad AT 27 and finally finished my masters at 33. It seems like you have changed your life for the better, and these are the types of stories I was hoping to see when I posted this. I took 5 years as well in my engineering program, but I did work for one semester which is partly why. I loooove codependent no more! And at the fear of sounding like a self help book.. but anything we wholeheartedly decide to do, when done with purpose, conviction and persistence all of life is at our disposal. I am trying to make some changes to better my life (getting in better shape, learning Brazilian jiu-jitsu, finding a new job, maybe taking some classes for professional development), and I would love to hear any success stories. We’re glad you made it. Since the physical world is chaotic and full of uncertainty, life can smack them right in the face and bring that back to reality in a hurry. then search for "alan watts + " in youtube. An optimist is at the other end of the spectrum. I don’t see any failures in what you posted. Congrats on quitting smoking! Then do another if you feel compelled. The lack of money and direction cause me a great deal of anxiety and honestly make me feel depressed if I linger too long on my shortcomings. Sorry for format! Never finished. This is a bit rant-y, but I figured I would take some minutes and share my thoughts. He helped completely turn my life around. That is huge and saves a ton of money. Do not listen to the mind chatter that says "you're in your late 30's and you haven't ______, we've got to fix this!" Most people don't save 30% of their salary for retirement. She showed me on paper what I have been ignoring for a few years. For me it would have been around the 250 mark. By Nicolas Cole, Contributor, Inc.com @Nicolascole77. If you want your life to get better, you need to start making better decisions. [Discussion] Did anyone turn their life around after 35? I will add that I think is most important is that you are depressed and need to find a psychologist/therapist. As an example, by virtue of having an engineering degree, a real job and retirement savings at your age, you're well ahead of the curve professionally. What really made me think that is that you failed at school because you took 5 years to finish. Welcome to /r/GetMotivated! And it fucking sucks. I wish you the best and if you like the first Alan Watts video, search for "What if when we die, we wake up?" Mine is a work in progress. If you’ve lost relationships, jobs, hobbies, or even your health due to depression, you can turn your life around and start taking positive steps toward a better future. More gym, less weed; more study, less TV. Finding an unbiased person like a psychologist to confide in share your experiences with will make you feel a lot better about life and help you mentally work through obstacles on your own. Also known as… the quarter-life crisis. You see what your friends are doing, & you don't know what daily internal talk they may be having. You are winning, son! I was never going to hurt myself (I would not have done such a thing to my daughter), but told my wife that I literally did not care if I lived or died. I guess the most important thing is not just think about something, but actually do it. Programming tends to be a lonely activity. So yesterday I've applied for some jobs and hopefully something positive will come out of it. When it's under control though I feel great . I think you'll like the others as well. Most of the time you will find out that with a little patience and planning you can. Your life has barely begun at 23... Life takes a decidedly different turn at 30. I haven't been in almost a year now. Ultimately, I think there is a lot to the idea of being in the present moment and trying to calm the mind down. But as a generalization, late 20s/early 30s, does feel different to early and mid 20s. And that article on people who became successful after 40 is great! But Ive always wondered, how do you get to weigh over 500? I'm not sure I would have done that if I felt everything was going great for me at the time. Turning 40 can feel like a big deal, and that's because it is. Now at forty something I've got an awesome job, a beautiful wife, and an interesting story to tell about how everything fell into place over time. The same way you got good at programming by actually practicing it. This month, my goal is to save $100 and not use my credit card at all. ... 20 Inspiring Films To Watch Before You Turn 30… Failed at 27 interviews in the span of last 3 months. It didn't need to be surfing. That's where we stand today five years after beginning. I just came across this video on my FB feed and it blew me away, and it is Alan Watts. This is a topic that you are putting too much worries into. The problem is that if you are psychologically used to spending every penny you earn then more money doesn't fix the problem it makes it worse. I will definitely check out this Alan Watts video, and the Joseph Campbell stuff is always inspiring. You are doing something about your physical appearance... and you are on the low end of turning 30... That's a great thing! When You Turn 30. Fill in this blank: "I want to be the kind of man who ________.". These absolutely do help me get in a more healthy frame of mind and make me feel less despondent. Break down every goal in to small daily steps. How do you handle rejection? If you have friends you have some social skills. And then I look on Facebook and see a lot of people with seemingly perfect lives, and that makes me feel worse. Anyway, I think for a person (regardless of age) who wants to turn their life around, they need to know who they are and what they truly want in life. Thank you so much for taking the time to reply. I'm 34, reenrolled at community college like Fall 2015. It's only this year (just turned 35) that I finally found a job in my field that I love and that pays me a sum I'm happy and mostly comfortable with. This has been an issue my whole life but I am ready to take it on. At 21 I dropped out of college. Most of the friends are married now, best friend is getting married in a few weeks. But keep up the good work. Whether you’re in a job you hate, struggling with a loss, or just not on the path you expected, only you hold the key to turning your life around. This is mostly about not procrastinating as I had the work available it's just that I would take days off at a time. Join a social group that covers one of your interests or projects. If you think life is meaningless and full of unending misery and pain and destruction, that is likely all that you will see and experience and attract in life. So a lot of what I'm trying to illustrate to you is that the groundwork part takes awhile for a lot of people. Between all those things and many nights of soul crushing depression, I finally started changing my "failure" mindset, loving myself (eyeroll I know) and enjoying my life. I've facial looks, which I'm thankful to parents. I got a degree in something useless. You can probably drop it to 20%, have a very comfortable retirement, and also have 10% of your salary as disposable income. Do your friends know what exactly you're looking for? Been hiking with the gf a lot to stave off the worst of the tubbiness with mixed results. Up til then, I've had hobbies and passions, but never anything that grabbed me like surfing has. I’d definitely say I am having a midi life crisis. I'm 35 now and I'm well into the process of turning things around (my finances were a complete mess five years ago). So it's hard to get motivated to do something. Sure. Remember that you don't see most people's failures, because most people will not present them front and center. You have a growth mindset, you are pushing through adversity. I then took a job as a security guard. How did I do it?Everyone's story is unique, some have very few responsibilities (kids, spouses, debt, etc) and are bored because they feel pressure to do something else. I think the one lucky thing is that because I work alone, I basically have had 8 hours a night for the last 5 years to listen to audiobooks and all kinds of podcasts on various topics which has given me a great education. I did end up replacing running with hiking because after a while it got to be a little hard on my body. About a week into not eating all the garbage I had fed myself for 32 years I really started to get some mental clarity and focus. I read books that motivated me. It’s a time where you begin to change and turn into the adult you are meant to be. Keep working out, and watching what you eat! So it may seem like you fail more than most people, when in fact you're about average. Turning 30 is one of those things that everyone has an opinion about. Where I am struggling right now is that I do not see a very clear path to my next phase of life. You could start a (cheap) hobby. It took the humbling experience of moving home and taking a low-paying job to motivate my ass. Eventually, I got into Tech support for about 1.5 yrs. This mindset can very likely help with your coding too. I'm hooked, I try and make time to do it every day if I can, it has changed my life. The guy is so on point with what this game of life is all about. And based on the Brain Rules book it seemed the best bet was for me to start doing some resistance training and aerobic activity. And thanks for suggesting those podcasts. Around this time four years ago, my life was a mess. However, you have intimate knowledge of your own failures. Thirty-something women can look forward to pay growth peaking at an average age of 39, according to a Payscale.com analysis.And if you're an artist or a scientist, you'll be most likely to have your biggest creative breakthrough in your late-30s, according to a study of scientific innovators and Nobel Prize winners. Being overweight isn’t a failure.. especially since you can change that through diet and fitness. You just gotta take it, and it looks like you already have. Have you been stuck in a life rut and gotten out? She is a lawyer. It was ridiculous. Depends on the person. That said, I am trying to exercise more and am training for a road race in November. I'm much less of a spaz than I was three years ago, when I was married. My sister decided at 37 she wanted to be a lawyer. You're already working on your problems. I dropped out of college 5 times due to family and financial issues. Once you can see the real numbers you are dealing with it is likely to motivate you to get a better job. I run it from the jungle in Costa Rica. Granted, I started back in Jan, and now I'm down 50 lbs... Just by checking my daily food intake alone! Her series on the addictive personality was a game-changer. ‘Turning 30 has been a massive deal for me. I would have to take on a lot of extra debt, which scares me, but if it works out I could have a great 20-30 years of working life to look forward to. I read the Power of Habit and have been reading other books about self-improvement. No need to be so hard on yourself, just because it took you longer than expected. Going forward it might be a good idea to ask interviewers how you can improve. The most important thing you can do to change your life around is turn the victim mindset into a winning and a positive mindset. Stay tuned to know how to turn your life around for the better. Here are 15 simple things you can do to turn your life around. Keep doing your thing and things will fall into place. It could have been any number of things at that point, but without seeking, I found it and I'm so glad I did. I held myself to a higher set of standards regarding what was acceptable for me to do, while at the same time not taking myself so seriously. So with my new found health I begin setting work-related goals. I appreciate the post, thank you for taking the time to write! You’ve heard from several successful men, Muslim and non-Muslim, who are contemporary examples of manliness. Seriously, stop being so hard on yourself. They are more concerned about that item you are offering. You asked for success stories, so I listed some of those things above, but the reality is this: As soon as I stopped placing so much importance on being successful, truly struggling my way to that goal, and focused on being present, envisioning the life I wanted and then letting the Universe take over, I found myself not only achieving more, but being perfectly happy with the pace at which it happened. Here's what I'd suggest: Pick a goal. You still finished dude!! Something like a comedy group or toastmasters could help you with social awkwardness. Build up your professional profile, and experience. I like having a goal, it keeps me focused and motivated. Even when you're in a state of discontent or feeling pain or fear or just plain having a bad day, somehow your spirit and energy remains intact. 30 is the new 60. by ... the first time in your life. I look younger for my age. You'll have the confidence from accomplishing this goal that you'll begin to develop confidence in your abilities elsewhere. No change without action. If you take that rejection, and think... "okay... Moving on" the easier it will be (actually move on though! At 22 I felt like an irredeemable loser...so I joined the Marine Corps. So we got separate bank accounts. Diet and exercise. Getty Images. There are no compromises in their lives. Somewhere in there I also got a DUI and I tried to make a career as a preservation carpenter work for 2.5 years. I'm fit and my brain is functioning like it should. If you cannot go out as much as you'd like to... Find a common hobby that is cheaper. When you actually envision a future for yourself and learn to "let go" and live life it slowly becomes a little easier; you begin to see beyond the darkness, you're better equipped to deal with future storms that come your way. Some people you click with and others are just backstabbing pieces of shit. Currently saving 30% of salary for retirement. Here's my personal list of the things in my 30s that have surprised me and made me feel a lot more relaxed about life: Discover unique things to do, places to eat, and sights to see in the best destinations around the world with Bring Me! Work-wise, I felt like I had hit a wall. This is great. How did you turn things around? I can say that I wouldn't have been able to turn things around if I didn't start with getting organized (a spreadsheet with all of your finances filled out to a year at least, ideas for a career). I turn 30 next year but mentally I feel like I'm still in my early 20s. They are essentially laying the foundation for a huge collapse. I’m gonna check out those podcasts now! I realized that a lot was wonderful about my life, and the person I was, but also that the greatness I could have and be and live was being limited by a few bad habits, limiting beliefs, dysfunctional patterns, and toxic relationships. Before school started, I used subject prep books to get ready, and I was definitely one of the most prepared students on day 1. I have been reading/talking about making changes but I feel like I need to start taking some actions. Helena, 30, felt it so acutely that she quit her job to go travelling. My irresponsibility had basically ended up with us about 50 k in debt to the IRS and with another 20 plus k in unsecured debt. At the moment I did decide that I want to find an other job. I listened to and watched motivational videos on youtube. These days people cab delay responsibility compared to the past. I like a lot of what you have to say. I really appreciate it! OP, what everyone is saying is right. That you can control! I'm in a similar boat. It's painful to put in all the real numbers and just see how long it will take to fix it, but it's infinite if you don't start somewhere. But there are things that you can do to begin turning your life around. You don't give a fuck and you become so much hotter for it. The possibilities are endless. I'm not 35 yet, but I don't think there is an age limit on when one can turn their life around. Once I found it, my life had the start of some balance. The thing is, if you don't do any socialising outside of work, it's unlikely your social skills will improve. r/AskReddit is the place to ask and answer thought-provoking questions. There’s a scene in the movie 13 Going On 30, when the main character—Jenna, a young woman sick of being a teenager—makes a wish to become “thirty, flirty and thriving.”To her great surprise, Jenna wakes up the next morning as her 30-year-old self, which begins an adventure where she learns that life can be challenging at any age. Getting rid of clients that underpaid and have way too high expectations, choosing just the one or two hobbies that really bring me the most joy and not trying to do it all, turning down social events so that I could do one or two things with friends each week, instead of several . Thanks for changing your life and sharing your story with us. It's the beginning of getting OLD. Only advice is to make goals. Perspective helps. What I will say is that failure is A) Normal, and B) Is actually helpful and sometimes necessary for growth. Right now I'm in the process of turning my life around. And what are your fitness plans after you have completed the 12 week program? Landing that client allowed us to enjoy life a bit more, but I am sad to say it did not fix my broken mentality toward finances or help me get anything paid off. Here's a short list (most of these things are free) in no particular order: Mentalpod podcast; Codependent No More-Melody Beattie; Codependency No More podcast; Religion (I'd been an atheist for over a decade but as hokey as it sounds praying for forgiveness for how shitty I was gave me hope to start moving forward. Not a failure. I am a 34 yo who suffers from acute amxiety since last 15 years. Read Daily And so that is my current project, last year was devoted to learning financial responsibility. No credit cards for at least five years till I can fix the debt issue. By using our Services or clicking I agree, you agree to our use of cookies. Found a better job or great significant other? To some, it sounds like "don't do anything with your life", but there's so much more to it than that. Dating is fun, because you probably have … It feeds this have and have nots mentality that ignores happiness. You have a lot to offer the right girl as I've stated above. Thank you so much for your reply and your honesty. Failed at my Mechanical Engineering Degree - Completed in 5 years rather than 4. Good luck and let us know how its going in a few months. Healthy Vision When Turning Forty. 30.8m members in the AskReddit community. It’s the subreddit to give and receive motivation through pictures, videos, text, music, AMA’s, personal stories, and anything and everything that you find particularly motivating and/or inspiring. It's great that you started to work out. I think a lot of people just generalize that the decade of your 20s is for carefree partying, and glaze over the fact that for a lot of us what its really used for is doing the hard emotional and mental task of developing the groundwork for our futures. Pay is OK, not that great yet since my programming skills are worst. But I'm not beating myself up for not having it sooner, faster, now. Marriage is great. Stay focused on paying your bills/debt and your job(getting a new one, maintaining and moving up, etc.). This gave me new tools so that even though I kept falling down and messing up, I kept getting back on. You should try some positive self talk. And take it from me, all that really matters is finding that one person you actually makes you happy. The most amazing journies always start with that first step. I've got a good job and no debt, but still I feel unhappy. You obviously have a very high standard for yourself and are talking yourself down. Seems like you're already focusing on this. But I met people WAY more fucked up than me (and you, I reckon) in rehab. I will definitely check those out. Sixteen-year-olds equate it to something akin to the apocalypse — an instant death of … The truth is that turning 30 doesn’t have to be all that scary as long as you know what to expect. At 27 I finally admitted that the Marines, though I owe them my life, was not going to be my career. Since I launched Becoming the Alpha Muslim last year you’ve been exposed to various topics in the space – spirituality, health, relationships, character development, and more. Not an easy goal. It's still a part of my life, but I managed to partly overcome it through therapy and - most importantly, I think - small steps out of my comfort zone. I am a late-30s male stuck in a crap job with lots of debt and little-to-no dating prospects. Making friends requires them. Some won't give you the time of day, but I've gotten great advice from others. AskMenOver30 is a place for supportive and friendly conversations between over 30 adults. Pick something, then do it. They were my motivation for making it through. And I'm no longer randomly just buying crap to make myself feel good. It's going to happen to all of us eventually, and often. This was just the last straw. I would start a task and never finish it. 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